Refined, Not Defined: A Sacred Awakening

Forgive yourself for offering your love to undeserving ones.

For lowering your guard and welcoming them into your sacred space.

An oblivious person with no regard for the weight of their actions.

Blinded by immaturity, they could not see your worth,

nor grasp the privilege of your presence.

Forgive yourself for staying too long and

for the moments that made you question your own value.

You are more than gold, more than fleeting affection.

You are adorned in strength,

and cherished by those who truly see YOU.

They may never understand your worth,

but what matters most is that YOU do.

Your power was never lost—it was only tested.


Cast away doubt,

silence regret,

and reclaim your light.


Turn your focus to the richness of life—

your faith, your purpose,

the love you share with others.

Embrace the lessons, release the shame,

and walk forward with grace.

This moment does not define you.

It refines YOU.



Quills~



Inspired by L.I.B

© Acquilla Gbunblee, 2025. All Rights Reserved.

This poem may not be copied, reproduced, distributed, or displayed without the author’s expressed written permission.

12 thoughts on “Refined, Not Defined: A Sacred Awakening

  1. I got “chills” reading the poem. It triggered a lot of emotions and memories. That’s what good art is supposed to do!

  2. Your poem is deeply moving, and every word resonates with heartfelt emotion. I felt every word as I was reading! Awesome job

  3. I felt this poem was written just for me! It was well written, uplifting & beautiful! And it ministered to my spirit. I am, “reclaiming my light”!

  4. This poem is so beautiful, uplifting and a reminder to all of us! You did an amazing job with this poem, it really hit home and reminds me to stop being so hard on myself because of other people’s actions. Thank you so much for sharing, this is a gem 💎

  5. This poem is beautifully written and deeply resonant. It carries a powerful message of self-forgiveness, resilience, and self-worth. The imagery of strength and light is especially compelling, offering a sense of empowerment and renewal. The repetition of “YOU” reinforces the importance of self-recognition and self-love, making it a personal and affirming piece. The progression from pain to growth is gracefully executed, leaving the reader with a profound sense of hope and renewal. This is a truly uplifting and inspiring work well done!

  6. I absolutely lovvve this poem and resonate with it deeply. I’m currently praying about forgiving myself. This is beautiful ma! Love it, thank you for this beautiful message!💝

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